It’s okay not to want what most other people want, in the way that they want it.
Applying the word “Failure” is a means for some people to stop other people doing certain things in a certain way.
Applying the word “Success” is a means for some people to keep other people doing certain things in a certain way.
Beware of any communication treating the concepts of “Independent” or “Dependent” as absolutely good or absolutely bad.
You probably do, and did, things earlier or later than other people. Time is relative. We’re all sometimes tortoise or hare.
Your work may look like play and your play may look like work to other people. That’s okay. The boundaries between the two aren’t as rigid as society makes out. Working at play and playing at work is often the key to happiness.
You’re right to be wary of the phrases; “It’s always been done this way”, “Just because” and “That’s just the way things are”.
You may never feel that you belong- but there are lots of places where you can belong by not belonging.
You exist in a place and a time- but there are lots of other places and times, past and future you could live by.
Learning doesn’t only happen when other people tell you they’re teaching you, often especially not then.
A community to value is one that values you.
Sometimes you might need to be helped to have help and supported to have support. (The rare) people and organisations which understand that, may well be your best help. It may take a lot of trial and error to find them.
This manifesto could also be drawn, sung, danced or sculpted or signed;
a translation of any communication or piece of art is always an act of kindness.
Labels can be useful, until they’re not useful;
it’s okay to point out that some of these manifesto points sound like fridge magnet slogans or Instagram poems.
Comedy lets you say two contradictory things at once- and also doesn’t.
Talk about the things that others don’t want you to talk about; money, sex, politics, grief, cucumbers;
it is just as important to learn how to be listened to as to learn how to not be listened to.
It is just as important to learn when and how not to listen as to learn when and how to listen.
If all you that you ever said, demonstrated, practiced, believed, lived, Tweeted, skated, swam, ate, painted, excreted was that there are multiple truths, then you would have been kinder to the world than most people in it.
The thing we call “you” and “not you” are only ever intersections of times and places, but this is one of the insights that is hardest to work into conversations about shopping, football and Love Island. Find the people who will have those conversations.